I’m Tom, I fuse technology, mental wellness, and athletic discipline with authentic communication to help people flourish in every dimension of life.

I’ve always been drawn to big questions: How do we unlock human potential? How do we adapt and thrive in every facet of life—professionally, personally, and athletically? These questions have led me down a unique path—building tech solutions for small businesses, training as a marriage and family therapist, and coaching archery for athletes of all levels. While it might seem like I wear many hats, each venture shares a common thread: helping people and organizations realize their fullest potential.

My professional journey began in technology, working across finance, healthcare, government, and education. I became fascinated with how digital tools can fundamentally reshape the way organizations operate, which sparked my entrepreneurial spirit. That spark led me to found Illumisight LLC—a digital agency delivering white-glove solutions to small and micro businesses. My goal is to give these entrepreneurs access to cutting-edge tech and strategic guidance—without the stress and confusion that often come with digital transformation.

Yet technology alone isn’t enough for true transformation. Real progress depends on emotional well-being, healthy relationships, and personal drive. That realization drew me to the field of mental health, and I’m currently training to become a marriage and family therapist. In this role, I focus on fostering emotional intelligence—our ability to understand, manage, and express emotions effectively—as a cornerstone of personal success. Whether I’m helping couples navigate conflict or supporting individuals through stress, I believe strong emotional intelligence empowers people to connect more authentically with themselves and those around them.

Then there’s archery—a sport that exemplifies the synergy between mind and body. As a USA Archery instructor, I’ve seen how focus, discipline, and the right mindset can elevate athletic performance. The same principles—steady focus, calm nerves, and pinpoint accuracy—help us manage stress, cultivate resilience, and approach life’s challenges with confidence.

Although these ventures may appear diverse, the core idea behind them is simple: when we strengthen our mental, physical, and emotional core, we become more resilient, more creative, and more capable of leading fulfilling lives. TomTiPat.com is where I share my ongoing journey—how technology, therapy training, and athletic coaching intersect to promote a balanced, growth-oriented lifestyle. I hope it sparks new insights and encourages others to explore their own paths to well-being.

At the heart of my journey is the conviction that passion can take many forms—technology, mental health, athletic coaching, wellness, and even the art of communication—and that each pursuit enriches the others when united by a single mission: helping people flourish in every dimension of life. My background in speech and debate taught me the power of genuine self-expression, whether I’m collaborating on a tech project, guiding someone toward emotional well-being, or coaching an athlete to find their focus. Here at TomTiPat.com, I share my experiences and insights in hopes of sparking new ideas and holistic growth. Together, let’s explore how nurturing mind, body, and spirit—and living an authentic life—can lead to deeper fulfillment and a lasting sense of purpose.